I didn’t want anyone to touch my child after rape

After the traumatic experience of my child being raped, I found myself struggling with the idea of anyone touching or examining them. It was a gut-wrenching feeling of protectiveness, fear, and vulnerability all rolled into one.

Every touch felt like a violation, a reminder of what had happened to my innocent child. I wanted to shield them from any further harm, to wrap them in a bubble of safety and never let anyone close again.

The thought of medical exams, forensic evidence collection, and even well-meaning gestures of comfort from loved ones filled me with dread. I couldn’t bear the idea of more intrusion, more probing questions, more exposure.

But I knew that in order to seek justice for my child, these steps were necessary. I had to push past my own discomfort and fears, and be strong for them. I had to trust in the professionals who were trained to handle these situations with care and sensitivity.

It was a long and painful journey, but I eventually came to see that these examinations were not just about gathering evidence, but about providing my child with the care and support they needed to heal. The doctors, nurses, and investigators were there to help us, not hurt us.

Through therapy, support groups, and the love of our family and friends, we were able to navigate this dark chapter in our lives and come out stronger on the other side. My child is a survivor, and so am I.

So to any parent out there who may be facing a similar situation, know that you are not alone. It’s okay to feel scared, angry, and overwhelmed. But don’t let those feelings consume you. Reach out for help, lean on your support system, and trust in the process.

And above all, remember that you are a fierce protector of your child, and you will do whatever it takes to ensure their safety and well-being. You are stronger than you know.